
You lie awake at night, torn between what others expect and what your heart is telling you.
You're exhausted from saying "yes" when you desperately want to say "no."
You've prayed for clarity but still find yourself saying 'yes' when your spirit is screaming 'no.'
You find yourself slipping into depression or anxiety because trying to make everyone else happy is literally crushing your spirit.
You've been taught that your worth comes from what you do for others, leaving you feeling empty when you try to prioritize yourself.
And worst of all? You wonder if setting boundaries somehow conflicts with your faith and call to serve.
I've been exactly where you are. For years, I confused people-pleasing with godliness, believing that denying my own needs was somehow more spiritual. Spoiler alert: it's not.
And that lie nearly destroyed both my faith AND my mental health.
But here's what no one's telling you...
What I eventually discovered transformed not only my relationships with others but deepened my relationship with God.
This free mini-workbook cuts through the BS and
most crucial step of the PEACE Framework: focuses on what you need first: Permission to Prioritize.
Until we address the deep-seated belief that our needs do not matter and our worth isn't dependent on serving others, no boundary-setting technique will truly stick.
It's the foundation of my PEACE Framework because until you believe you're worthy of having needs, nothing else sticks.

Until we address the deep-seated belief that our needs do not matter,
no boundary-setting technique will truly stick.
No fluffy, churchy platitudes here—just real tools that address both your faith AND your feelings:
The Permission Paradox: Why giving yourself permission feels so difficult
Biblical evidence that self-care honors God (it's not selfish!)
The Grace Mirror Exercise: A powerful tool to overcome self-judgment
Decision Clarity Practice for your current challenges
Faith-aligned affirmations to strengthen your permission muscles
Daily permission practices that take less than 2 minutes
Worth Reclamation Exercise: Separate your inherent value from your performance
Women discover that their worth isn't earned through endless giving but was given to them by God from the beginning.
"I've spent years in counseling but never made the progress I did in
12 weeks of boundary work with Darian.
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Hey! I'm your guide, Darian!
As a Christian woman who once confused people-pleasing with godliness, I've walked the same challenging path many of you are on right now.
Through deep study of scripture and my own boundary journey, I've discovered what transformed my relationships and deepened my faith: God actually honors when we steward our capacity through healthy boundaries.
This revelation led me to develop the PEACE Framework—a biblically-grounded approach that helps Christian women find their voice without compromising their faith values.
My background in nursing has given me unique insight into how unaddressed boundary struggles manifest physically and emotionally, which is why I'm deeply passionate about guiding women toward the freedom that comes when we honor both ourselves and God. I combine biblical truth with practical tools to help you move from overwhelm to clarity, from resentment to peace, and from exhaustion to purposeful service.
Author in Amazon best-seller Business on Purpose: Volume 2
Nurse (critical care & hospice & home infusions)
Course creator & life changer
10 furbabies + a Morgan (human man I love)
