She Speaks Securely: Heal Your Heart & Find Your Voice

The complete PEACE framework for Christian women torn between

honoring God and honoring themselves.


Look, I get it. You're tired of feeling trapped between what God wants and what you need. The "Permission to Prioritize" mini-workbook gave you a taste of freedom, but there's so much more to this journey. The complete

PEACE Workbook addresses what no one else is openly talking about:

Your mental health matter JUST as much as your Spiritual health--

yes, it matter just as much to Jesus, too!

Let's be real - your boundary struggles aren't just about techniques. They're about WORTH. You can't set boundaries until you believe you DESERVE them. The complete PEACE Framework addresses this head-on, helping you reconnect with your God-given worth that exists--completely separate from what you do for others.

For too Long, You've Struggled with:

  • Saying "yes" when you desperately want to say "no"

  • Making decisions based on others' expectations rather than God's guidance

  • Feeling guilty when you attempt to set boundaries

  • Worrying that prioritizing your wellbeing somehow conflicts with your faith

  • Feeling like your very real emotional struggles

    are being spiritually bypassed ("just pray more")

  • Drowning in one-sided relationships where you give everything and receive nothing

  • Wondering if the voice inside you that's screaming for change is from God or the enemy

  • Secretly questioning if being a "good Christian woman" means sacrificing your mental health

The complete PEACE Framework Workbook guides you through all five essential components of faith-aligned boundary transformation—

giving you both the biblical foundation and practical tools to break free from prioritizing others above yourself & getting lost in the process.

What's Inside the Complete Workbook

No fluffy, churchy platitudes here—just real tools that address both your faith AND your feelings.

Module 1: Permission to Prioritize

Let's be honest—you've been taught that putting yourself on the priority list is selfish. I call BS on that. This module gives you the biblical evidence that self-care actually honors God (not a single verse says boundaries are selfish!).

  • You'll discover why giving yourself permission feels so hard and work through the Grace Mirror Exercise that has helped women break through years of self-judgment.

  • Discover how your inherent worth creates the foundation for all healthy boundaries.

THE WORTH-BOUNDARIES CONNECTION


Most boundary resources miss the critical link: You won't maintain boundaries if you don't believe you're WORTHY of having them.

While the world pushes "self-esteem," the PEACE Framework helps you discover your God-given worth that requires no earning. This isn't selfish - it's stewardship of the value God already placed in you.

When you truly believe you matter to God exactly as you are (not for what you do), setting boundaries becomes an act of honoring His creation rather than a guilt-inducing struggle.

Module 2: Examine External Influences

Real talk: You've got a hundred voices in your head telling you what you "should" do—and most of them aren't God. This module helps you sort through whose opinions are actually running your life. We'll tackle

  • How to tell the difference between godly counsel and straight-up manipulation, plus

  • Practical tools for when people try to guilt you back into your "proper place."

    Because your decisions belong to you and God—not everyone else.

Module 3: Align with Aligned Truth

Here's what nobody tells you: God didn't create you to be a doormat. He actually wired you with unique desires and needs. In this module, we

  • Cut through years of "dying to self" misinterpretations and reconnect you with your God-given voice. You'll

  • Learn how to recognize when that inner nudge is from God versus when it's just someone else's expectations you've internalized.

This isn't about becoming "more spiritual"—it's about finding YOU again.

Module 4: Create Clear Boundaries

This is where the rubber meets the road. No more vague boundaries that crumble under pressure. This module gives you

  • Actual scripts for real-life situations—whether it's your pushy mother-in-law, your demanding boss, or that church leader who thinks your "no" is just the opening to a negotiation.

  • You'll learn how to stand firm without being harsh and

  • how to honor your limits without the crushing guilt afterward.

Module 5: Embrace Discernment

  • When you start setting boundaries, the pushback WILL come—and it'll make you doubt everything. This module:

  • Helps you tell the difference between helpful conviction and unhelpful guilt. You'll

  • develop the confidence to maintain your boundaries even when people try to label you "difficult" or "unspiritual."

    Because here's the truth: healthy boundaries aren't just good for you—they actually glorify God by honoring how He designed you.

What makes this workbook different?

Real talk: Most Christian resources either ignore your emotional needs or secular resources ignore your faith.

The PEACE Framework REFUSES to make you choose...

  • It meets you in the messy middle of faith AND feelin

  • Addresses the lie that your depression or anxiety is just "lack of faith"

  • It validates your God-given right to have needs without apology

  • It offers practical tools for when church culture pushes back against your boundaries

  • Addresses both internal permission and external implementation

  • Provides scripture-based foundation for every boundary principle

  • Includes practical scripts and exercises you can use immediately

  • Guides you through real-life application in family, work, and ministry contexts

  • Includes personal audio guidance that feels like having me right there with you

Bonus Materials Included

Scripture Reference Guide: Biblical support for every aspect of your boundary journey

Difficult Conversations Framework: Step-by-step guide for expressing boundaries with love


This workbook is 100+ pages of transformational content on a beautiful, intuitive layout with space for reflection. Delivered as a Digital PDF format for
immediate access with printable exercises and worksheets.

Testimonials


"For years, I struggled with saying 'no' to family demands that left me exhausted and resentful. After working through the complete PEACE Framework, I was able to have a conversation with my mother-in-law that I'd been avoiding for SEVEN YEARS. The framework gave me both the clarity and confidence to express my boundaries with love rather than fear." — M.K.


"When I first started, I struggled with boundaries and constantly second-guessed myself at work. Now, I have the tools to work through challenges while trusting myself, and I've found a sense of peace I didn't have before. Looking back, these three months completely changed how I approach both my professional and personal life." — J.R.

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Ready to stop choosing between your faith and your sanity? This workbook isn't another "just be more spiritual" guilt trip—it's your permission slip to honor both God AND yourself. Get immediate access now.


Not sure if the complete workbook is right for you? I'm offering complimentary 30-minute Clarity Calls where we can discuss your specific situation &

determine the best next steps for your boundary journey--whether it's this and you jump into the workbook by itself, the course, group, or 1:1's

(as all options come with this framework at varying degrees) .

Start your journey worry-free:

I've been where you are—torn between what I'd been taught about "dying to self" and the very real need to protect my heart and mind.

This workbook contains everything I wish someone had told me years ago. If it doesn't give you both spiritual and emotional tools you can use immediately I'd love to hear from you. Simply send me a DM.

By purchasing, you'll also receive faith-aligned boundary insights and occasional updates. You can unsubscribe anytime.

Hey! I'm your guide, Darian!

As a Christian woman who once confused people-pleasing with godliness, I've walked the same challenging path many of you are on right now.

Through deep study of scripture and my own boundary journey, I've discovered what transformed my relationships and deepened my faith: God actually honors when we steward our capacity through healthy boundaries.

This revelation led me to develop the PEACE Framework—a biblically-grounded approach that helps Christian women find their voice without compromising their faith values.

My background in nursing has given me unique insight into how unaddressed boundary struggles manifest physically and emotionally, which is why I'm deeply passionate about guiding women toward the freedom that comes when we honor both ourselves and God. I combine biblical truth with practical tools to help you move from overwhelm to clarity, from resentment to peace, and from exhaustion to purposeful service.

  • Author in Amazon best-seller Business on Purpose: Volume 2

  • Nurse (critical care & hospice & home infusions)

  • Course creator & life changer

  • 10 furbabies + a Morgan (human man I love)