Welcome to She Speaks Securely!
1:1 Coaching for Christian Women
Go From Decision Paralysis
to Peace
6 sessions over 90 days + Voxer support.
6 sessions over 90 days for Christian women ready to stop second-guessing and start trusting themselves again.
I'm Darian--& I'll show you how
🕒 Pre-Maternity Pricing Ends November 30, 2025
Save $1,500 off regular $4,000 rate. Only 3 spots available before maternity leave.
IF YOU ARE ...
✓ You're tired of reading boundary books that don't create actual change
✓ You know WHAT you need to do but don't know HOW to do it
✓ You need someone to walk you through the hard conversations in real-time
✓ You're ready to stop abandoning yourself
✓ You want personalized support, not generic advice
✓ You're willing to invest in transformation
✓ You need accountability and encouragement through implementation
This is NOT for you if:
✗ You're looking for a quick fix
✗ You're not willing to have difficult conversations
✗ You want someone to tell you exactly what to do (I help you find YOUR answers, not give you mine)
✗ You're not ready to invest time, energy, and money in yourself
✗ You need clinical mental health support (if you're dealing with trauma, depression, suicidal thoughts - start with a therapist first, coaching can come alongside that)
A Little About Me
I'm Darian—a registered nurse with 8 years in healthcare (ICU, hospice, case management) who learned about decision-making and self-trust the hard way...
I grew up in a chaotic family where I became the responsible one, holding everything together while everyone else fell apart. Then church culture wrapped it all in spiritual language: "Die to self. Your needs don't matter. That's what good Christians do."
I believed it—until the cost of abandoning myself became unbearable.
So I did the work. Therapy. Coaching. Books. Years of untangling what I was taught from what's actually true. I've navigated boundaries in my previous marriage and in my current relationship. I've made the hard choices that cost me relationships and reputations—but I kept my soul.
Now I help other women do the same—without abandoning their faith or themselves.
[Read my full story →]
What you get:
✓ 6 personalized one-hour sessions over 90 days
✓ Self paced course + PEACE Workbook included ($564 value - yours free with coaching)
✓ Voxer messaging support between sessions (24-48 hour response, M-F business hours - not real-time)
✓ Responsive coaching structure - we work through what comes up as it comes up, no rigid curriculum
✓ Personalized PEACE Framework implementation for YOUR specific situation
✓ Custom boundary language for YOUR relationships (not generic scripts)
✓ Practice difficult conversations before you have them in real life
✓ Support when you're stuck or triggered (via Voxer between sessions)
✓ Tools to build tolerance for others' disappointment
✓ Integration that becomes who you are, not just what you know
How we'll work together:
Session 1: Foundation
Assess where you are now
Identify your biggest boundary struggles
Map your people-pleasing patterns
Introduce PEACE Framework customized to your life
Create your transformation roadmap
Sessions 2-3: Permission & ExaminationGive yourself permission to prioritize your needs
Identify whose voices are loudest (and they're not yours)
Examine external influences (family, church, culture)
Begin separating "should" from "want"
Sessions 4-5: Acknowledgment & Boundaries
Acknowledge your truth without guilt
Create clear, specific boundaries for your situations
Practice difficult conversation scripts
Implement boundaries with Voxer support between sessions
Session 6: Discernment & Integration
Embrace ongoing discernment practices
Make decisions with peace, not paralysis
Plan for continuing momentum post-coaching
Celebrate transformation
Between Sessions:
Voxer messaging support (24-48 hour response, M-F business hours)
Accountability and encouragement
Resources and scripts as needed
WHAT CHANGES AFTER 90 DAYS:
By the end of our time together, you'll:
✓ Know what YOU want (not what everyone else wants for you)
✓ Speak your truth with security, not aggression
✓ Set boundaries without guilt or apology
✓ Make decisions with peace instead of paralysis
✓ Have the tools to navigate future boundary issues on your own
✓ Trust yourself again
✓ Honor both God and yourself without choosing
You can’t beat the concept that your voice matters...for a long time I felt like it didn’t matter & that it was swept away, not just by the world, but by my ex-husband & that what I said didn’t matter anymore..
it certainly made me feel strong again..
I took responsibility for my voice & I took responsibility for what my voice could say.
-Diane
After each of our calls I always feel lighter, happier, more grounded
-Erin
I was hesitant at first, but Darian's warm & non-judgmental approach made me feel so comfortable. She has such a gift for making things manageable & empowering!
-Emily
I made the decision to not work over the holidays (after feeling guilt & anxiety about it for weeks) and I felt SO much relief from it. I did it for me, not out of guilt or peer pressure to work (or to be at home). It feels so nice!
-Jenny
Due to the kind of work we do together, my clients usually prefer to remain picture-free
& anonymous --& of course I honor that!!
Investment: Pre-Maternity Rate: $2,500
This is my founding client rate before baby arrives—you're saving $1,500 off my regular $4,000 rate.
I want to give options for you, no matter where you are so--Here are the payment options & I don't want you to be blindsided--NOT how I roll--so for transparency before you fill out the application:
Pay in full: $2,500
4-month payment plan: 4 monthly payments of $625
3-month payment plan: 3 monthly payments of $850
Need a 6 month payment plan? Let let me know on your application!
Ready to say bye to self-doubt & hello to peace, today!?
The nitty gritty details--What happens when I buy?
-You submit your application (takes 5 minutes)
-I review it within 48 hours
-If we're a good fit, I'll reach out to schedule a 20-minute conversation
-On our call, we determine if we're aligned and if I can help you
-If yes, I send you the payment link to secure your spot
-Once you pay, you receive: Welcome email with course login info
+ My calendar link to schedule your 6 sessions
+ Instructions for Voxer setup
There's no obligation to purchase after applying—we'll determine together if this is right for you.
Have questions?
I got you, friend! Here's some commonly asked q's and their answers...
Please DM or email me if you've got any specific questions that aren't answered here.
How do we schedule sessions?
We'll either schedule all 6 sessions upfront (my recommendation) or schedule rolling sessions. Sessions are approximately every 2 weeks but we adjust based on your needs.
What if I need to reschedule?
Just give me 48 hours notice and we'll reschedule within your 90-day window. Missed sessions without notice are forfeited.
How does Voxer support work?
You can message me anytime between sessions. I respond within 24-48 hours, Monday-Friday during business hours. This isn't real-time coaching—it's for questions, wins, and support between our scheduled calls.
Do I get lifetime access to the course?
Yes! The course and workbook are yours to keep forever, even after our 90 days together.
What is the time commitment?
Minimum: 1 hour every 2 weeks for our coaching calls (6 sessions total over 90 days)
Optional: The course and workbook are included, but you work through them at your own pace. Some clients dive deep and spend 1-3 hours/week on the materials. Others just show up for calls and do the work between sessions. It's flexible based on your capacity.
Voxer: You can message anytime between sessions. I respond within 24-48 hours, M-F.
Bottom line: Plan for 1-2 hours every 2 weeks minimum. Everything else is optional and self-paced.
What if I'm not a good fit?
That's what the application process is for! After you apply, we'll have a 20-minute fit conversation to make sure we're aligned before you commit.
I'm already in therapy. Do I need this too?
If you're dealing with trauma, mental illness, or suicidal ideation, yes—you should be working with a licensed therapist. I'm a coach, not a therapist. Coaching works best alongside therapy for those who need clinical support. Many of my clients are in both therapy and coaching at the same time. If at any time during our work together I feel you need additional therapeutic support, I'll let you know.
What happens after 90 days?
You'll have the tools to continue on your own. Some clients choose to continue with monthly coaching post-maternity leave, but that's optional.
What's your refund policy?
No refunds after your first session. If you need to cancel before we begin (before session 1), you'll receive a full refund minus a $250 administrative fee.
This policy protects both of us—I've vetted you through the application process, and you've committed to showing up for yourself. Once we start, I'm fully invested in your transformation.
MEET THE FOUNDER & CEO
Hey, I'm Darian
I started She Speaks Securely, LLC back in 2020 as a Christian sex-ed advocate and teacher (who's also a RN). I made a course to help Christian women have the talk(s) at age & developmental appropriate times as they grow up--because I believe they GET to be safer than we were growing up.
Ever since I've been able to help Christian women shift some of their beliefs and mindsets (rewire their brains, I call it) to a place of emotional and spiritual connectedness--as a survivor or all kinda stuff myself, I know the importance of both & don't believe we have to live disconnected AT ALL.
Author in Amazon best-seller Business on Purpose: Vol. 2
Nurse (critical care & hospice & home infusions)
Course creator & life changer
10 furbabies + a Morgan (human man I love)
You can read more about me here.
Ready to Stop Abandoning Yourself?
Only 3 spots left before I close for maternity leave.
Pre-maternity rate of $2,500 (save $1,500) ends November 30, 2025.
Refund Policy
No refunds after session 1. If you cancel before your first session, full refund minus $250 admin fee.
By purchasing, you're committing to showing up for yourself and doing the work. I've carefully vetted each client to ensure we're a good fit, and once we begin, I'm fully invested in your transformation.