From Stuck to Secure:
5 Days to Finding Your Voice & Freedom
For Christian women tired of feeling lost between
faith & authenticity (AKA being real--I don't love that a word!)
Truth time...
You're here because
You're tired of feeling stuck between faith and what feels true
You know you're meant for more than constant second-guessing
You want to trust yourself without losing your connection to God
You're ready for something to actually change
I get it because I've been there - caught in that impossible place where honoring God and honoring yourself seem at odds.
Where making a decision feels like choosing between faith and freedom.
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You're not alone.
This 5-day training was born from my own journey through the fog of religious conditioning, people-pleasing, and the exhausting cycle of overthinking every choice.
This 5-Day Experience Will Show You:
Day 1: The Real Reason You Feel Stuck(Hint: It's not because you lack faith)
Day 2: Why "Just Pray About It" Isn't Enough(And what to do when prayer alone feels insufficient)
Day 3: Finding Your Voice Again(Practical steps to trust your wisdom)
Day 4: What's Actually Possible For You(Real stories of transformation)
Day 5: Your Path Forward(Clear next steps for your journey)
Each day builds on the last, creating a path from confusion to clarity, from stuck to secure.
Who is this for?
This training is perfect for you if:
You're facing a decision that feels impossible
You're questioning if your desires are selfish or God-given
You've been taught that trusting yourself means doubting God
You feel invisible in your own life
You're ready for real change but don't know where to start
From Stuck to Secure gives you a safe place to begin your journey back to yourself - while deepening, not diminishing, your faith.
Learn from real-life humans!
Sarah, who felt guilty about setting boundaries with family
Jennifer, who stayed in analysis paralysis about her career
Rebecca, who couldn't decide about a relationship
Michelle, who struggled with taking space for herself
When you sign up, you'll receive:
5 daily emails with practical teaching and exercises
Journal prompts to clarify your thoughts and desires
Simple, implementable steps to start trusting yourself
Real stories of women who've made this journey
Clear guidance for your next steps
No overwhelming information. No abstract concepts.
Just practical, real-life application you can start using today.
TESTIMONIALS
What others are saying
"Before this training, I felt like I was drowning in confusion - wanting to honor God but also feeling like something needed to change. This gave me permission to trust my voice again while actually deepening my faith." - M
"I've spent years feeling guilty for having needs and desires. This training helped me see that God gave me those desires for a reason, and trusting them isn't selfish - it's stewardship." - J
"Finally, someone who understands the tension between being a good Christian woman and trusting my own voice."
Ready to move from stuck to secure?
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Hey! I'm your guide, Darian!
I started She Speaks Securely, LLC back in 2020 as a Christian sex-ed advocate and teacher (who's also a RN). I made a course to help Christian women have the talk(s) at age & developmental appropriate times as they grow up--because I believe they GET to be safer than we were growing up.
Ever since then I've been able to help Christian women shift
some of their beliefs and mindsets (rewire their brains, I call it)
to a place of emotional and spiritual connectedness--as a survivor
of all kinda stuff myself, I know the importance of both
& don't believe we have to live disconnected AT ALL.
Author in Amazon best-seller Business on Purpose: Volume 2
Nurse (critical care & hospice & home infusions)
Course creator & life changer
10 furbabies + a Morgan (human man I love)
STILL NOT SURE?
Here ya go!
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this about ignoring others' needs to focus on myself?
Not at all. This is about finding the God-designed balance between serving others and honoring your own needs—just as Jesus modeled.
What if I'm already in therapy?
This experience complements therapy by specifically addressing the faith component of decision-making that many standard therapeutic approaches don't cover
Will this tell me exactly what decision to make?
Rather than telling you what to choose, we'll give you tools to hear God's voice and trust your God-given wisdom more clearly.
Is this Biblical?
Absolutely. We'll look at numerous Biblical examples of bold decision-making and how Jesus himself set boundaries and made clear choices.
How much time will this take?
Each daily practice takes about 15 minutes, with optional deeper exploration if you choose.
What if I'm not struggling with a major decision right now?
These tools will help you build confidence in all your choices, from daily boundaries to life-changing decisions.